Stop Sucking at Setting Goals

Yesterday was January 14, 2016…

You do realize what this means, right? As pathetic and disturbing as it is to talk about, research suggests that by today, 90% of those who have committed to New Years Resolutions have either deviated away from, never actually got started, or quit their resolutions all together!

WTF?!

Let me tell you something you already know; nothing worth doing is done once or twice a year. I.E. Goal setting in the beginning of January.

But why is it that practically EVERYONE, every time, continues to fall short with seeing thru and accomplishing their goals?

This can be answered too many ways, but from my experience working with over 10k+ people in the last 4 years, and more over, failing miserably (on so many occasions it’s unbelievable) with some of my own goals, I’m going to tell you that it usually comes down to nothing more than the fact that we are not setting big enough goals!

But if we are failing to follow thru with small or average size goals, how the hell can we responsibly expect to do what needs to be done to accomplish the big stuff?!

The reality is this, if your goals are not big enough to get you excited and put a little smirk on your face anytime they cross your mind, you’ll NEVER take the aggressive, massive action needed to accomplish them. That’s just how our psychology is set up.

You have to set goals crazy and exciting enough to where you’re able to maintain enthusiasm and remain dedicated throughout the entire process! And remember, if your goals are worth a shit, this process will be extensive!
Set goals that are out of your reach and overwhelm you even thinking about! That’s what winners do. If it’s important to you and you really want it, you’ll figure out what you need to do to make it happen!

But you may not really want it as much as you think you do. Please remember, there is clear distinction between wanting something, and being willing make sacrifices and put in the work for it.

If you’re one of those people who don’t write your goals down, please be advised you don’t actually have a goal at all. So stop trying to convince yourself otherwise. This is another key issue as to why so many are never able to set and accomplish compelling goals.

You’re better off not setting goals at all than setting goals that are not on paper. You have a 0% chance of successfully accomplishing a goal if it’s not documented. So save yourself the headache of failing, and negative association you will inevitably develop with the goal setting process, until you’re ready to invest the time to writing your goals down.

If you don’t value your goal as important enough to write down, how can you actually expect to stay motivated enough to consistently put in the work to succeed?!

Re-read that last sentence a couple times for me. Thanks.

And please, don’t be one of those people who sets some BS, fake ass, trivial goal, simply so you can post about it on social media to get a few likes and obtain temporary significance in the process…That’s a separate topic entirely we can discuss in another article though.

Let’s be straight up here…

Goal setting is not for everyone.

Hence, why in society we have winners, and we have losers…
Look I get it, change is hard. But in order to grow we have to change. The grim reality is Americans really suck with the goal setting process.

But the difference between those who are killing it everyday , and those who are not, simply comes down to the strategy set and level of action put in toward getting the end result.
Nothing more, nothing less.

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